After my trip last weekend, my week has been rather ho-hum. So, in an effort to find blog material, I will now list eight unique characteristics of
Jayce (I did this for Alyssa a few months back, so for posterity I should probably write something about my son as well).
1. He is very detail oriented -- bordering on scary! The other day he saw the famous lifeguard scene from "Sandlot." The whole kissing part kind of went over his head, but the rescue didn't. He was able to recreate the scene for me a couple of days later . . . including details such as taking the whistle off first and then the sunglasses -- then the dive, then the CPR steps she took, etc. Whenever he acts things out, he brings out specifics of scenes that I've never noticed before. Also, when he creates his own scenes (such as a police chase), he adds so many facets that I think so many people gloss over (like talking into a radio, waiting for a response, opening the car door, closing the car door, adjusting his imaginary handcuffs just so, etc.). I'm glad he's so observant to a point, but then I worry that he's watching ME. I need to tread carefully with this one.
2. He has an amazing memory, which I think goes along with his detailed observation. The song "I'm yours" by Jason
Mraz came on the radio, and he kept telling me it was from a movie. I couldn't figure out what he was talking about, but then I finally realized he was recalling a
pre-show we had seen more than two months before (it was at one of those kid freebie movies at the theater). He then told me how Jason was wearing a black shirt. Okay, freaky. I didn't think kids paid attention to the
pre-show . . . that was popcorn eating time. I have impressive recall abilities, so I'll credit that to me (although, admittedly, my memory has failed many times as well).
3. He will not go to bed by himself --
Jer or I have to lay by him. We get awfully frustrated because this takes up a lot of precious evening time, but he seems so fearful at night that we cave in to his demands.
4.
Jayce has MAJOR separation anxiety issues, as I'm sure you could tell by my preschool post. He loves to stick close to me during the day and has major fits at church when he has to go to Sunbeams. I feel like preschool has helped, but he still has a long way to go.
5. His favorite song is "Heaven is a Place on Earth" by Belinda
Carlisle (long story) -- a song he loves to sing loudly at awkward times in public places.
6. He is very obedient, polite, and good-natured with other adults and kids. At home he can be sassy, however, and rather defiant. But even when he gives me looks of disgust, he can't hide his underlying sweetness.
7.
Jer and I commonly refer to him as "The Enforcer." He's a stickler for rules. For instance, if
Jer says anything like "idiot" or "dang it" (usually as he's driving), I'll hear about it when they get home. Or if I don't turn off a light and leave the room (he hates wasting electricity),
Jer will hear about it when he gets home. Man, we can't get away with anything!!! And other kids, playing with
Jayce, can't get away with anything either. What a killjoy! :) (He also likes to send us to timeout -- something Jer and I are happy to do for him).
8. He loves Alyssa, and we're so glad!
Actually, I remembered a few more I wanted to document, but please stop reading before I bore you to tears (remember . . . it's for posterity :) ).
- Jayce has become my budding astronomer and is very interested in knowing his place in the universe. Fortunately I kept my astronomy book from college, so we've been going over the planets, the sun, solar system, and galaxies. He even wants me to go over complex diagrams like the birth of a star or black holes. I'm finding it very tricky to answer his questions.
- He loves the science museum! We go there contantly and he's fascinated by the demonstrations. The other day we learned about the human body and he loved holding the different organs (fake ones, of course). He's a big fan of his bones and muscles.
- Jayce is very aware of food content and asks me "what's in this?" for every meal. He's especially concerned about sugar bugs since we've taken him to the dentist. I need to brush up on my food knowledge because he even wants to know the specific vitamins for the foods he eats. I'm glad he's so good . . . I love the idea of having a little health nut.